Unhappy love

The problem is that crazy and unhappy love that brings pain and suffering even in the beginning of relations is not love in reality but the love addiction. It has nothing to do with the high and life-asserting feeling that is the true love. The love addiction is the hunger, thirst searching for love and loving partner. This is the analogue of drug addiction and that is why it is called love addiction.

This feeling may be mutual and not mutual. But in any case such love influences people similarly to the influence of drugs, alcohol and the loving person is similar to alcoholic and drug addicted. Such person can't live without loving person as alcoholic can't live without drinking a glass of spirits. He/she thinks and feels almost the same that a hungry person thinks and feels when seeing the loaf of bread.

But usually such love addiction conquers people for many years. And then it turns into disease that brings nothing more but the physical pain and suffering that must be treated as soon as possible. Sometimes the spiritual pain is felt on the physical level when there is pain in heart, the pressure rises, the headaches become usual and a lot of female and male diseases appear. And a lot of other diseases appear on the base of chronic stress.

Very often love is confused with the love addiction as people who suffer from it follow the statement – "if I suffer, than I love". But in reality it is not so. Real love is able to bring only good and positive emotions and feelings. And if love addiction is mutual, everything is almost ok, but it is not, person suffers a lot bringing troubles to himself/herself and to other people.