To learn from one's mistakes

It may seem that once suffering form such disease people will never make the same mistakes again. We got used that experience is everything for us and that it is got to make people learn from their mistakes. But everything is in another way in things that refer to love addiction.
The experience of "love" doesn't pass without any trances. Very often women suffer from love addiction during all their lives getting from one love to another spending their best time in the net of addictions.
But if men suffered from such addiction they get disappointed in love. Being afraid of the new suffering they prohibit loving justifying it by the fact that there is no love at all. They leave women and come back and leave them again manipulating them and bringing suffering to them.
But the worst in it is the fact that when men had such love once they are unable to feel the real love any more and they miss the suffering, pain and passion. And when he meets the real life he can easily pass it by without paying attention to it.
Women don't learn from their mistakes and repeat the same mistakes again and again and men never turn to the same mistakes again. And this is the main problem. Imagine what results in the end. Men don't want to love and women can't stop loving. The problem is obvious.
So love addiction is not just the psychological problems but also the social one that is the reason for the numerous divorces and unwillingness of people to get married.