Reasons for love addiction

Usually people with low self-appraisal get under the influence of love addiction. People with the lack of parent's love and tenderness or people that were violently controlled by parents are also inclined to love addiction. The main feature of love addicted is the absence of love to a person.

Besides, the modern world is filled with the stereotypes that regulate the loving relations between people. And such stereotypes are "jealousy means love", "love is suffering", etc. And in such way people start to pay attention to people that have the potential to cause pain and suffering. Sometimes even parents create all favourable conditions for the development of love addiction. Mothers warn their sons from the perfidious women that want to conquer men to take money from them and nothing more. And fathers warn their daughters that men need only one thing from a woman and this is sex.

There are a lot of myths about love affairs as for example, it is necessary to find the special someone to be really happy. Such myth creates the inferiority complex. But in reality everything is ok and all people can be happy even without the special someone and there are a lot of people around us that may become our heroes for the certain period.

Another myth is that the real love is eternal and that it may be experienced only once in life. Any person can loose his/her feelings any moment. And you may do the same thing. And it doesn't mean you won't meat love any more. Happiness is not a moment but the long period.