Love addiction as one more addiction

Love addiction is addiction formed on base of interpersonal attitudes. The term addiction is more used to drug addiction and alcohol addiction from the first look but love addiction belongs to those universal processes of addiction development and is followed by the self-destroying behaviour of both participants of love relations. If it is the case of mutual love addiction the destroying behaviour of both partners takes place.

In such case the phenomenon of love means depending relations between people that have no conclusions and results. And the illusion of love is its result. And in such case love is dedicated not to a person whom you love but to yourself. A person creates an ideal trying to find the second "I" because the first "I" was injured.

Love addiction is usually accompanied with extreme passion of both partners if it is mutual love that is explained by extreme need of partners in each other. And they can't get away from each other even if there is a conflict between them.

Addiction becomes obvious when relations are finished with complete and sudden break. As relationship was the only aim and form of life for a person, their destruction causes complete disorientation in life. Because of the total interference of love into all spheres of life, the end of love is huge and exciting. That is why some people that were the closest people in the world start to hate each other. And manipulation only takes the free and open form. In such case two loving people change their emotional state till the level that they may start to harm each other.