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Love is the natural process that arises thousands of feeling and emotions in us. This cherishing feeling can also lead to harmful consequences and in some cases love turns into addiction in which not the result is important but the process.

It may seem that once suffering form such disease people will never make the same mistakes again. We got used that experience is everything for us and that it is got to make people learn from their mistakes. But everything is in another way in things that refer to love addiction.

Insatiability in love

One of the most characteristic features of love addiction is the insatiability in love. The main forms of its expression are jealousy and the demand of complete and unconditional love. The neurotic jealousy unlike the jealousy of healthy person that may be adequate reaction to the fear to loose somebody's love doesn't correspond to the danger.

It is caused by the constant fear to loose the ruling over a person and in the result of this fact a person you are in love with looses any interest that he/she might have presenting the potential danger.

Sometimes the huge jealousy is considered to be the result of the child's fits of jealousy when there was the competition between children in a family or special attention of one of the parents and lack of attention of another one. Another variation can be the feeling of a child to be a fifth wheel in the pair of parents. Such not rather optimistic experience is transmitted to the adult life relations.

There is also another variation of love addiction that is manifested in the next way. As the love of another person is life important factor, then it means that depended person will pay any price for it not even realizing it. And the most frequent payment for such life is the position of submissiveness and emotional addiction. Submissiveness may be expressed in the fact that a person won't be ready to express non agreement with the views and actions of another person and criticises him demonstrating only the complete loyalty, admiration and obedience.